Happiness is...
Being remembered.
Today we visited my old High School and Middle School. Just for fun. It wasn't until my seventh grade band director stopped me in the hallway did I realize that I had actually made a mark there. He remembered my name, my instrument, and particulars about my family. A real footprint! It felt good, if only for a 3 minute conversation. I loved the feeling!
I remember many of the people who have impacted my life. Who'd have known that it was reciprocal :)
Showing posts with label cherish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cherish. Show all posts
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Him
Happiness is...
Him. All of him. Being with him. Talking him for more than one hour, one day a week. Seeing him---really seeing him. Being held by him.
The life of a military girlfriend is no walk in the park. But oh, isn't leave glorious.
It feels like it should, a real relationship with real ups and downs, and more than just the telephone and computer. It feels like love. It feels like the perfect vacation. If only it didn't have to end.
Happiness is this. Tomorrow it's back to reality. But for today, I can revel in it.
Him. All of him. Being with him. Talking him for more than one hour, one day a week. Seeing him---really seeing him. Being held by him.
The life of a military girlfriend is no walk in the park. But oh, isn't leave glorious.
It feels like it should, a real relationship with real ups and downs, and more than just the telephone and computer. It feels like love. It feels like the perfect vacation. If only it didn't have to end.
Happiness is this. Tomorrow it's back to reality. But for today, I can revel in it.
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Monday, April 11, 2011
Disney
Happiness is...
Disney. What else can get your mind off of the cruelty of life? Whether belting out the words to a Whole New World or quoting the best of Lion King, there will always be warmth in your heart and a twinkle in your eyes. And no, I am not being cheesy---it is 100% accurate.
Tonight we had a debate over whether Belle was, in fact, the most stellar princess... I mean, she reads! However, it was not very nice to yell at the beast, he has a complex.
Bottom line: I love Disney. Disney is the root of all happiness.
Disney. What else can get your mind off of the cruelty of life? Whether belting out the words to a Whole New World or quoting the best of Lion King, there will always be warmth in your heart and a twinkle in your eyes. And no, I am not being cheesy---it is 100% accurate.
Tonight we had a debate over whether Belle was, in fact, the most stellar princess... I mean, she reads! However, it was not very nice to yell at the beast, he has a complex.
Bottom line: I love Disney. Disney is the root of all happiness.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Skype?!
Happiness is...
Reminiscing on fun childhood memories. Think about your embarrassing yearbook photos growing up. Talk about your grade school boyfriends. Remember the names of all three of your imaginary friends. Look through old drawings and journal entries and let that bright smile creep across your face.
I had the chance to chat on skype with a dear friend last night, and it very quickly turned from catching up talking about work woes to anecdotes from the distant past. I welcomed it, a chance to laugh together until we cry. Pointing out the awkward developing teen years is a great way to find a running joke... though I'd never want to relive the times.
Take a moment today to page through old albums or call up a childhood friends to share stories all over again. You'll be surprised what memories arise from the shadows!
Make yourself happy. Make memories.
Reminiscing on fun childhood memories. Think about your embarrassing yearbook photos growing up. Talk about your grade school boyfriends. Remember the names of all three of your imaginary friends. Look through old drawings and journal entries and let that bright smile creep across your face.
I had the chance to chat on skype with a dear friend last night, and it very quickly turned from catching up talking about work woes to anecdotes from the distant past. I welcomed it, a chance to laugh together until we cry. Pointing out the awkward developing teen years is a great way to find a running joke... though I'd never want to relive the times.
Take a moment today to page through old albums or call up a childhood friends to share stories all over again. You'll be surprised what memories arise from the shadows!
Make yourself happy. Make memories.
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Siesta
Happiness is...
A mid day nap.
In Spain, businesses literally shut down in the afternoon hours so that people could go home, enjoy their family, and relax for a few hours. Siestas have spread around the world, and with good reason. My day is just better when I get to lay down in the early afternoon. It has been way too long since I had a nice nap, and today I took the time to indulge. Not only do I feel less sick and more energy, but I feel a little more sane. And we could all use a little sanity from time to time.
Next time your eyes are droopy or you feel close to a tantrum, take an hour to turn off the lights, pull down the shades, and crawl under your blankets. You'll be amazed by the difference it makes. The weekend should be treated as such, so try to take some time out like the world was meant to.
Naps. Yes. Good sleep, cozy dreams, and a refreshed perspective on the remainder of your Sunday. Thank you España.
A mid day nap.
In Spain, businesses literally shut down in the afternoon hours so that people could go home, enjoy their family, and relax for a few hours. Siestas have spread around the world, and with good reason. My day is just better when I get to lay down in the early afternoon. It has been way too long since I had a nice nap, and today I took the time to indulge. Not only do I feel less sick and more energy, but I feel a little more sane. And we could all use a little sanity from time to time.
Next time your eyes are droopy or you feel close to a tantrum, take an hour to turn off the lights, pull down the shades, and crawl under your blankets. You'll be amazed by the difference it makes. The weekend should be treated as such, so try to take some time out like the world was meant to.
Naps. Yes. Good sleep, cozy dreams, and a refreshed perspective on the remainder of your Sunday. Thank you España.
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Post from a friend
Happiness is...
Simple words from good friends:
If you want to be happy -- choose to be.
If you dwell on negativity your life is going to be just that.
If you smile on the world, it WILL smile back.
Enjoy the little things, they may be gone someday (People included).
Do the things that you want to do, because you are in charge of your own life, and if you let other people determine your decisions you may live in regret someday.
Spend time with the people who lift you up, bring laughter to your lips, and who you cannot live without.
Don't over-complicate things. Things are already as complicated as they need to be.
When things get overwhelming and you feel like life is falling apart, remember your blessings - don't focus on the curses.
Remember no one has control over your life but YOU. Make the best of it.
Be content but always strive for more.
Don't be complacent or think you know it all, you always have something to learn.
When you are upset by someone - put yourself in their shoes, try to see their perspective - This will give you the much needed outside view.
Don't wish away any moment, you will never get it back.
Keep it simple, and always remember "Life will go on" regardless of the circumstance.
SMILE no matter what, it makes a difference.
All credit goes to my dear friend Rebecca, who brought sincere and pure happiness into my evening through a tactful, thoughtful blog post. Thank you for sharing the happy!
Simple words from good friends:
If you want to be happy -- choose to be.
If you dwell on negativity your life is going to be just that.
If you smile on the world, it WILL smile back.
Enjoy the little things, they may be gone someday (People included).
Do the things that you want to do, because you are in charge of your own life, and if you let other people determine your decisions you may live in regret someday.
Spend time with the people who lift you up, bring laughter to your lips, and who you cannot live without.
Don't over-complicate things. Things are already as complicated as they need to be.
When things get overwhelming and you feel like life is falling apart, remember your blessings - don't focus on the curses.
Remember no one has control over your life but YOU. Make the best of it.
Be content but always strive for more.
Don't be complacent or think you know it all, you always have something to learn.
When you are upset by someone - put yourself in their shoes, try to see their perspective - This will give you the much needed outside view.
Don't wish away any moment, you will never get it back.
Keep it simple, and always remember "Life will go on" regardless of the circumstance.
SMILE no matter what, it makes a difference.
All credit goes to my dear friend Rebecca, who brought sincere and pure happiness into my evening through a tactful, thoughtful blog post. Thank you for sharing the happy!
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Babies
Happiness is...
Every little gift from God... 9 months in growth and then presentation to the lucky mother.
You may begin by seeing the issues that this can present, but then you catch a glimpse of the bundle of life growing within us. It's a feat of nature, and they become your unique creation, to mold into the artwork of individuality. Through all of the challenges, I must believe there is a serious joy in parenting, seeing first words, steps, friends, successes... And today every ounce of my love and blessing goes to my dear friend as she celebrates: may your child provide for you a lifetime of health, love, and happiness.
Children are the only thing that will love you unconditionally. They will bring some spice to your life, and never take any single one for granted. Children bring light to your life.
DISCLAIMER: I speak from my care and adoration for children, but not from any personal desire for a child in the near-future... :)
Every little gift from God... 9 months in growth and then presentation to the lucky mother.
You may begin by seeing the issues that this can present, but then you catch a glimpse of the bundle of life growing within us. It's a feat of nature, and they become your unique creation, to mold into the artwork of individuality. Through all of the challenges, I must believe there is a serious joy in parenting, seeing first words, steps, friends, successes... And today every ounce of my love and blessing goes to my dear friend as she celebrates: may your child provide for you a lifetime of health, love, and happiness.
Children are the only thing that will love you unconditionally. They will bring some spice to your life, and never take any single one for granted. Children bring light to your life.
DISCLAIMER: I speak from my care and adoration for children, but not from any personal desire for a child in the near-future... :)
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